- When you’re in a hole, stop digging. Under pressure, we tend to try the same failed strategy again and again. Even though we know pushing for an answer, getting angry or going silent doesn’t work, we imagine doing it one more time (but bigger, louder or for longer) will
change things. It won’t. - Stop playing tit for tat. He does something horrible and you match him. Soon it’s become a race to the bottom.
- Just for a second, put your feelings to one side and step in your partner’s shoes. How does your relationship look now and what would you like to do differently?
- Make a full apology. This is different from saying sorry. First, acknowledge any behaviour that you regret; next, identify how this might have made him feel, and then apologise. Please don’t explain why you acted as you did — that’s for another day — because it can sound like an excuse and lessen the power of your apology.
- Be the big one. If you love your husband — and if not, why are you spending hours talking about him to your girlfriends — do you love him enough to give without any expectation (in the short term) of getting anything back?
Monday, October 22, 2012
FIVE STEPS TO SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE
Sunday, October 21, 2012
Thursday, October 18, 2012
HEALTH TIPS: WORKAHOLIC MEN SUFFER IN THE SACK
Men with demanding jobs have a reduce sex-drive and a raised risk of erectile difficulties. Japanese researchers say that low testosterone caused by stress is to blame
YSL DROPS 18-MONTH LAWSUIT AGAINST CHRISTIAN LOUBOUTIN AS BOTH SIDES CLAIM THEY WON BATTLE OF THE RED-SOLED SHOES
Battle: The New York Court
of Appeals ruled that the distinctive red soles of Christian Louboutin shoes
are entitled to trademark protection
Red rival: YSL say they are
'extremely satisfied' that they can continue to produce 'monochrome' versions
of their Tribtoo platform pumps
Seeing red: In April 2011
Christian Louboutin sued YSL for using red soles on the bottom of its red
pumps, demanding $1million in damages
Victory: Last year Zara won
the right to sell their red-soled heels (left) which Louboutin said copied
their Yo Yo slingbacks (right)
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