TIPS ON WEIGHT MANAGEMENT, LIFESTYLE AND BUSINESS

Monday, October 22, 2012

Msanii maarufu wa filamu nchini, Elizabeth Michael a.k.a LULU, (Katikati), akielekea kupanda basi la magereza kwenye viwanja vya Mahakama ya Hakimu Kkazi Kisutu, baada ya kesi inayomkabili ya kutuhumiwa kumuua msanii mwenzake, Hayati Steven Kanumba, kuahirishwa tena na hivyo mwanadada huyo ambaye umri wake unaleta utata ataendelea kusota rumande hadi hapo kesi yake itakapotajwa tena

LULU akielekea kupanda gari tayari kwa safari ya Segerea kunako mahabusu. SOURCE: K-VIS BLOG

FIVE STEPS TO SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE

When you’re in a hole, stop digging. Under pressure, we tend to try the same failed strategy again and again. Even though we know pushing for an answer, getting angry or going silent doesn’t work, we imagine doing it one more time (but bigger, louder or for longer) will
change things. It won’t.
Stop playing tit for tat. He does something horrible and you match him. Soon it’s become a race to the bottom.
Just for a second, put your feelings to one side and step in your partner’s shoes. How does your relationship look now and what would you like to do differently?
Make a full apology. This is different from saying sorry. First, acknowledge any behaviour that you regret; next, identify how this might have made him feel, and then apologise. Please don’t explain why you acted as you did — that’s for another day — because it can sound like an excuse and lessen the power of your apology.
Be the big one. If you love your husband — and if not, why are you spending hours talking about him to your girlfriends — do you love him enough to give without any expectation (in the short term) of getting anything back?