Love is
all about trust but if suspicion starts creeping up slowly in a relationship,
then it can wreak havoc. Unnecessary suspicion is something you should avoid to
have a loving relationship. But if your instincts are telling you otherwise,
then you need to be cautious.
So if you
start getting that weird feeling that your boyfriend might be cheating on you,
but you are not sure about it to directly confront him, then what should you
do? To begin with, look for these signs of a cheating boyfriend.
1. If he doesn’t let you touch his phone or is
reluctant to let you go through your messages, then something may be amiss and
he is trying to hide something.
2. If he is hesitant to tell you his email
password or always skirts the issue whenever you ask, then you need to dig deep
to know what’s going on.
3. If all of a sudden he seems to have lost
interest in love making and those passionate embraces, then it’s a sign that
your boyfriend might be cheating on you.
4. If every time you talk about your future
together with him, he seems distant and aloof, then definitely something is
going on in his mind.
5. If you find him checking his phone at odd
hours at night, that’s another sign of the possibility that something fishy is
going on.
6. If he has started doing ‘overtime’ at work
more than necessary, then that may be a sign that he’s using that time to meet
someone else.
7. If he has started saying it often, “Oh I’ve
had my dinner with one of my colleagues’, then be ready to look deeper into the
matter.
8. If you find him checking himself in the
mirror more than necessary or if he has become more concerned about his looks
and it seems to do nothing with you, then that can be another sign for you to
get concerned.
9. Every time you approach him, he seems to be
‘too tired’ or has ‘a splitting headache’.
10. Gradually you realize that he doesn’t hug
you or caress you as often as he used to earlier.
11. You catch him attending to a phone and when
you ask about whom it was, all he says is “Just wrong number” or something like
that and tries to get away from you.
12. He has started avoiding eye contact with
you.
13. Your outings and romantic candle night
dinners are gradually decreasing.
14. His kisses are not as passionate as they
used to be. Every time you kiss him, you get the feeling that he’s not kissing
you back.
15. Some guys tend to go in the opposite
direction when they are cheating. All of a sudden they start showering you with
gifts and excessive attention that you never got earlier. It happens because
they are feeling guilty about the affair.
Of course each relationship is different. So go
with your instincts before you make a decision. If you find your boyfriend
exhibiting some or most of these signs, then dig a bit deeper to know the truth
and decide for yourself!
(via Mag
for Women)
