I SNOOPED ON MY HUSBAND'S SEX SECRETS: ROWAN PELLING'S SEX COLUMN

Rowan Pelling gives advice on what to do if you find out your partner is secretly not happy with your sex life. Pictured: Stock image

QUESTION: My husband and I met two years ago and I thought we had great relationship. But last weekend I was alone and discovered his diary. I was shocked to find he writes about our love life in detail and is sometimes critical of ‘dull’ sex. Should I confront him?

Answer: It’s hard to decide just  who’s the worst behaved here: your graceless man for writing about your sexual encounters or you for reading his private diary. 

You are quite old enough to know that no good ever comes of reading someone else’s journal and, indeed, that it’s a breach of trust. 

If you confront your man about the diary, he may never trust you again. I mean, where will your snooping end? How would you feel if he read your texts?  Let’s have some mutual honesty here. Has there never been one occasion when you   thought sex was a bit below par?

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Watu kadhaa wamejeruhiwa leo Aprili 13, 2014 na kitu kilichosadikiwa ni bomu la kurushwa kwa mkono lililolipua bar maarufu jijini Arusha ijulikanayo kwa jina la Arusha Night Park (Matako Bar) iliyopo eneo la Mianzini.

Kwa mujibu wa habari ilizozifikia chumba chetu cha habari zinasema kuwa kitu hicho kilichosadikiwa ni bomu kimelipuka kimesababisha uharibifu wa mali ikiwemo kuwajeruhi watu kadhaa.

"Mmoja ya mashuhuda ambaye ameongea na mwandishi wetu kwa njia ya simu amesema tukio hili limetokea saa moja lililopita, ambapo kulikuwa na watu wengi waliokuw wakiangalia mpira.

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REST IN PEACE MUHIDIN MAALIM GURUMO

Mwimbaji Mkongwe wa Bendi ya Msondo Ngoma Muhidin Maalim Gurumo amefariki alasiri hii katika hospitali ya Muhimbili alikokuwa amelazwa kwa matibabu baada ya kuugua kwa muda mrefu. Habari zilizofikia dawati letu zinasema kuwa mzee huyo amefariki kutokana na maradhi ambayo yalimsumbua kwa muda mrefu: 

 Septemba 10, 2012: Mwimbaji huyo Mkongwe wa Bendi ya Msondo Ngoma alifanikiwa kupanda tena jukwaani kukonga mashabiki wa bendi hiyo baada ya afya yake kulega lega kutokana kusumbuliwa na Maradhi. 

Novemba 22, 2013: GWIJI wa muziki wa dansi mstaafu Muhidin Maalim Gurumo aliugua ghafla na kulazwa Hospitali ya Taifa Muhimbili jijini Dar es salaam. Mwimbaji huyo mkongwe alipatwa na tatizo la shinikizo la damu na hali ikawa mbaya kabla ya kukimbizwa hospitalini hapo.